Vital Piece

You mat­ter. You are here on planet Earth for a rea­son, placed here by a Cre­ator who has designs on your life.  There is some­thing you are meant to do in the world for the world.  Some­thing you are meant to give to oth­ers.  You were cre­ated for a pur­pose by a pur­pose­ful, orderly God.  When He built a world that was both effi­cient and beau­ti­ful, He filled it with human beings and decided to include you.  Why?

The Cre­ator planned that every per­son would play a part and help the uni­verse work as it should.  To some He gave what humans would con­sider big jobs, to oth­ers, sim­ple assign­ments.  But to Him, every task was immensely impor­tant for the work­ing of the whole.  Each per­son, each tiny baby He fash­ioned, had –has— a pur­pose to ful­fill that is nec­es­sary.  You were cre­ated to do some­thing to make the world a bet­ter place.  You were cre­ated for a purpose.

If the words above res­onate with you, per­haps it is because your Cre­ator imbed­ded in your very DNA the notion that you are here to make a dif­fer­ence.   Try as you might, you sim­ply can­not shake the dream-like long­ing you have to do just that—to play a role that is truly sig­nif­i­cant.   At times you tell your­self to give it up, to be con­tent with what is and adjust your atti­tude.  But you can­not do it.  Deep within, you know there is more to life than this.  There is a rea­son I am here; my exis­tence is not ran­dom.  I matter.

For we are God’s work­man­ship, cre­ated in Christ Jesus for good works,
which God pre­pared before­hand, that we should walk in them.

Won­der what that is, that some­thing God planned for you?

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The Ultimate Beauty of Service

In the world where I work on staff at Fel­low­ship Bible Church, a mantra often repeated in the halls and offices is, “Ser­vice is dis­ci­ple­ship.”  First time I heard it, my imme­di­ate thought was, What? Wait –back up and ‘splain.

Now, I get it.  As we serve, we become dis­ci­ples.  Study­ing the Bible cer­tainly helps us become dis­ci­ples.  Read­ing great books by those wiser and more expe­ri­enced helps, too.  Tak­ing equip­ping classes has its place in our growth.  But the best place to learn how to become a dis­ci­ple of Christ is leave the class­room and get some on the job train­ing.  O.J.T.  Actual hands-on, front-line min­istry to oth­ers, prefer­ably, oth­ers out­side the bor­ders of your com­fort zone. That is where we are dri­ven to seek the face of God.  That is where we know beyond a shadow of a doubt how inad­e­quate we are.  It is in that place –above all–where we become recep­tive.  Moti­vated.  Eager to hear from God, trust Him fully, and obey.  Ser­vice is discipleship.

Hid­den Creek Devel­op­ment Cen­ter, a res­i­den­tial tran­si­tion facil­ity for recently released felons, opened its doors in Jan­u­ary, 2011. Since then I’ve been serv­ing as trainer of vol­un­teers and becom­ing increas­ingly involved with the res­i­dents.  As I began to serve, I quickly real­ized how lit­tle I knew of this world.  Though I’d been work­ing with vol­un­teers in the church for nearly 30 years, I was ill-equipped to deal with the chal­lenges of min­istry in this venue.  In the months that fol­lowed I came to know just how much I need God.  That is what O.J.T. is all about:  God just has to show up or what I’m doing is for naught.  Case in point:  while talk­ing with one of the res­i­dents recently, this thought wafted across my con­scious­ness:  Holy Spirit , if you don’t empower me right now, I’m going to blow this oppor­tu­nity to speak into the life of one who is ask­ing great ques­tions.  Speak through me, Lord!

In that moment, I was recep­tive.  Teach­able.  Capa­ble of actu­ally allow­ing the Spirit to use my mouth.  I was finally becom­ing a dis­ci­ple.  Have you been there?  Good!  You’re poised (1) to grow as a dis­ci­ple and (2) to bear fruit that lasts.

If you haven’t been there, are you will­ing to go?  If so, you will expe­ri­ence the ulti­mate beauty of ser­vice.  You will, my friend, go deep with God.

May you and I become increas­ingly will­ing, recep­tive and able to hear.  Trust.  Obey.

What are you hear­ing lately?

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Honduras, Watch Out!

Hon­duras: Watch Out!

 

Everyone’s ask­ing, “How was your trip to Hon­duras?”  The short answer:  amazing!

Not because the coun­try is beau­ti­ful –it is.  Not because the women were won­der­ful and seemed so famil­iar to me, so kin­dred.  They were and did. Amaz­ing, pri­mar­ily because of one woman –the cham­pion that God has cho­sen to carry the Woman on a Mis­sion mes­sage to Spanish-speaking women–Rudy Lopez.

Rudy just hap­pens to be a dynamic, gifted, proven leader in her cor­ner of the world already.  She also just hap­pens to be the wife of Pas­tor Ernesto Lopez who is the cham­pion of Men’s Fra­ter­nity for Latin Amer­ica.  Both Rudy and Ernesto, I am cer­tain, have been hand­picked by God for such a time as this.  And I don’t say that lightly.

Hav­ing been in min­istry for almost 30 years, I know that such charis­matic leader-speakers are rare.  One sim­ply doesn’t come across them very often –male or female.  Rudy is warm and engag­ing, quick to crack a joke and laugh at one, gen­uine, win­some, and com­pas­sion­ate.   Her heart is soft toward the Spirit of God, yet she exudes strength of per­son­al­ity.  I’ve heard it said that a leader is some­one oth­ers fol­low.   And they do, eagerly.

What is most amaz­ing, how­ever, is not so much Rudy her­self.  It’s know­ing that God obvi­ously wants women in Latin Amer­ica to be exposed to the vision He gave me years ago.  He wants them to become dif­fer­ence mak­ers for the king­dom, to do what Jesus did –to glo­rify God by accom­plish­ing the work He has given them to do.  I have long believed that all women need to hear this message–and now God has con­firmed that He wants the same thing — in Hon­duras, at least.

The first thing that Rudy told me when I met her last spring in Lit­tle Rock was that the women in her coun­try are not in touch with their worth, their use­ful­ness to God, their poten­tial to be dif­fer­ence mak­ers.  Their self-esteem is rock bot­tom; they have no idea that God intends to use them to min­is­ter to a lost and hurt­ing world.   And because of Men’s Fra­ter­nity and the impact it’s hav­ing on thou­sands of pas­tors across Hon­duras, doors are swing­ing wide open for Woman on a Mis­sionMujer en la Mision. 

Before clos­ing I must offer a big thank you to Pam Fer­gu­son who first met Rudy a cou­ple of years ago on one of her many trips to Tegu­ci­galpa, Hon­duras.  She first planted the idea in Rudy’s mind that Woman on a Mis­sion might be ben­e­fi­cial to her women and then became the cat­a­lyst for my trip to see her.

Friends, we have sis­ters south of the bor­der who will soon be wak­ing up to a whole new way of doing L.I.F.E. –They will begin liv­ing inten­tion­ally for eter­nity.   Pam and I will travel back to Tegu­ci­galpa and San Pedro Sula to do con­fer­ences on May 23rd and 25th.  As they say in Teguc, Gra­cias Senor.

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The Power of Stuff

By nature I’m messy.  Not a slob, mind you, just messy.  Piles col­lect on my desk at work and on the kitchen counter, my bed­side table.  Clothes that don’t suit me or the sea­son col­lect in my closet.  Lit­tle stuff mul­ti­plies in my draw­ers and cab­i­nets when I’m not look­ing.  Pens and pen­cils, rub­ber bands, lip­stick I really don’t like. Dishes, ran­dom assort­ments of cof­fee mugs and kitchen gad­gets.  Shoes and purses. Paper.  Emails sent, saved and unread.  And I tol­er­ate it pretty well most of the time.  But there comes a point when I real­ize: stuff both­ers me.  Never under­es­ti­mate it.  Stuff has the power to con­sume your phys­i­cal space and your men­tal space.  As with a house guest who’s over­stayed his wel­come, I crave some alone time.  One of us has to go!

The stuff of which I speak includes phys­i­cal clut­ter as well as unfin­ished projects and bro­ken things.  Such things are Energy Drain­ers, or as Kristie Moss likes to call them, Joy Suck­ers.  My laun­dry room and the closet therein have been just that for me: joy suck­ers beaucoup.

Today, I’m thrilled to report I con­quered the 8’ X 8’ space yes­ter­day, fill­ing up the trash bar­rel, now at the curb, and my trunk, the con­tents of which I promptly deposited at the local Good­will col­lec­tion station.

Alas, my fel­low messies, there’s good news.  Joy suck­ers, once dealt with become –wait for it – energy boost­ers.  Joy givers!  Declut­ter­ing offers rewards that far out­weigh the time and effort required to do so.  Note to self:  Remem­ber that.  Long after slay­ing the clut­ter dragon I find myself pass­ing through the for­merly afflicted space again and again, stop­ping to admire the scenery.  Soak­ing in the thrill of vic­tory.  And suc­cess breeds suc­cess.  The once messy me wants an encore –soon!  To my own sat­is­fied applause.

What dragon needs slay­ing in your cor­ner of the world?

List as many joy suck­ers as you can —in the next 60 sec­onds.  Ready?  Start … now!

 

 

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Making a Difference X4

One of the most thrilling things about being the author of Woman on a Mis­sion is  hear­ing from women about what they’ve been doing since their WOM class ended.  Here are 4 brief snapshots:

o   When Ash­ley Wadsworth had triplets, one lit­tle guy named Parker had to remain in the hos­pi­tal for three weeks. Dur­ing that time Ash­ley was struck by the num­ber of par­ents who must camp out in the wait­ing room while car­ing for their kids.  That’s when God planted the idea in Ashley’s heart of remod­el­ing her home to pro­vide hous­ing for par­ents with kids in Children’s Hos­pi­tal who live out­side Lit­tle Rock and who could not afford a hotel.  While Ash­ley was going through Woman on a Mis­sion years later, God reignited the vision.  The boys are now 8 and Parker’s House is open for busi­ness.  Ash­ley has dis­cov­ered her works pre­pared before­hand and one day dreams of help­ing fam­i­lies all over the coun­try open Parker’s Houses to serve the needs of those in their com­mu­ni­ties.  (Photo below: Gabe, the son of Ashley’s first guest, now has a new heart!)

Ash­ley with Melanie, PH’s first guest

o   Sandy Zern of Pitts­burgh turned her job into a mis­sion.  While work­ing through WOM, Sandy decided to start an Inter­act Club, a Chris­t­ian out­reach pro­gram where stu­dents give back to the com­mu­nity through ser­vice projects.  At the first gath­er­ing of the club at New Brighten High School, Sandy was pray­ing for 12 — 15 stu­dents to launch the club, but God had other ideas.  45 showed up.  I can only imag­ine how the Lord is going to use Sandy in the lives of those teenagers and in that community.

o   Each Christ­mas for 4 years King­dom Quil­ters of Fel­low­ship Bible Church has pro­vided between 80 and 100 hand­made lap quilts for Hos­pice patients in Arkansas. Elaine Green reluc­tantly greed to orga­nize the effort after a Hos­pice worker called the church with an unusual request.  “I won­der if there might be women in your church who would like to sew quilts for 75 Hos­pice patients for Christ­mas?”   Given that it was already Octo­ber, I thought it a laugh­able request, but promised to pass it along to my cur­rent Woman on a Mis­sion class.  Elaine raised her hand and said, “I love to quilt, but I’m going to need help. With my job (in excess of 55+ hours per week), I can’t orga­nize it.”  Because no one else stepped for­ward, Elaine did take it on.  Fif­teen months later, 100 quilts were wrapped and ready for delivery.   At last count over 40 women from var­i­ous churches have offered their time, tal­ents, and prayers to craft a sym­bol of God’s love for peo­ple whose death is emi­nent.  On each quilt is a poem I wrote to let recip­i­ents know Christ cares and that some­one has prayed for them.

o   Twice a week Mary Lynn Nel­son leads a team of “track­ers” at Easter Seals of Arkansas who serve as the arms and hands of dis­abled chil­dren and young adults as they cre­ate orig­i­nal art.  Laser lights attached to the artist’s heads enable them to select paint col­ors and tools and direct the tracker’s brush strokes.  An art show at the Governor’s Man­sion was held in Octo­ber to show­case and auc­tion the mas­ter­pieces.  To the packed room Mary Lynn gave God all the glory, and the artists beamed with pride.

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Bridge Over Peaceful Waters

In times of peace I drift away from You.  Like float­ing on a quiet river in cool temps, I effort­lessly slide away.  Nap­ping, I wake to find I’m removed; You, dis­tant.  Peace­ful waters hide dan­gers worth remem­ber­ing. There is where I long to be—in the shadow of the Almighty, no mat­ter how delight­ful the nap.  Surely by now our rela­tion­ship is deep enough that storms are not nec­es­sary.  The trip back to inti­macy feels like a neck-high trudge upstream.  I reach for You, strain­ing against the cur­rent.  Like Angelo’s fresco, arms out­stretched but not touch­ing.  Stuck in space.  How did I wind up here?  How do I avoid a sim­i­lar trip?

Yes, I’m grate­ful for the calm and quiet but not at the expense of inti­macy.  Ah!  Could that be my help, tucked into the shad­ows of my thoughts?  When the lazy river wants to draw me down­stream, may sweet, deep grat­i­tude bridge the dis­tance before it even appears.

As you there­fore have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him,
hav­ing been firmly rooted and now being built up in Him and estab­lished in your faith,
just as you were instructed, and over­flow­ing with grat­i­tude.
Colos­sians 2:6–7

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Trafficking: Pittsburgh Woman on a Mission

If any two words have the power to sicken the stom­ach in an instant, it’s sex traf­fick­ing.  Read what one woman in Pitts­burgh is doing about it.  Meet Lau­ren Walder: a woman on a mis­sion — from God.

http://www.efca.org/reachglobal/reachglobal-ministries/efca-touchglobal/justice-initiatives/-god-sized-vision

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Satisfied

The women I know who are most dis­sat­is­fied with their lives are most enam­ored with their com­fort zones. 

Don’t ask me to do any­thing hard, but … I sure wish life were a bit more interesting.

I’ve lost my pas­sion. I  don’t really care about anything.

I don’t know what God wants me to do!  I would do some­thing if I just knew WHAT to do!

If you give your­self to the hun­gry and sat­isfy the desire of the afflicted, then your light will rise in dark­ness and your gloom will become like mid­day.  And the Lord will contin­u­ally guide you and sat­isfy your desire in scorched places.  Is. 58:10–11

Peter, do you love Me? Yes, Lord.  Tend My lambs.

Peter, do you love Me? Yes, Lord.  Shep­herd My sheep.

Peter, do you love Me? Yes!  Tend My sheep.

 

Rocket sci­ence, it is not. The great com­mand: love.   The great com­mis­sion: go, make dis­ci­ples, bap­tize them, teach them to obey God  And Jesus will be with us–even to the end of the age.  With us.  With me.  With you.  What more do we need? We’d do well to pray less about being deliv­ered from trou­bles and ene­mies and more about being deliv­ered from our own desire for comfort.

Lord God, why is it so hard to sim­ply –love?  Deliver me from being enam­ored with ease.  Sat­isfy my desire in scorched places.  Empower me to tend, shep­herd, and love. For You, Jesus, amen.

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Sharing Stories

The par­tic­i­pants in the cur­rent Woman on a Mis­sion class recently shared their fam­ily sto­ries, which is the self-discovery home­work for Les­son 1.  Most came with much fear and trem­bling, not know­ing how much to share, how deep to go, what secrets to reveal, and just how much they should trust com­plete strangers.

Here is a sam­pling of what the small group facil­i­ta­tors had to say about the evening’s shar­ing.  It will give you a taste of what we all experienced.

S: My group was unbe­liev­able. They were even more trans­par­ent than either of my pre­vi­ous groups. They revealed wounds and pains that they had never shared with any­one –not even with their hus­bands. One of the women in my group who had typed out her story wanted her hus­band to know about some of her wounds so she just handed him a copy to read before she left for class.  She would not be able to say the words out loud to him.  Yet, to her small group, she some­how man­aged to do just that.

G: I’m email­ing my group indi­vid­u­ally to thank them for their hon­esty and trust (as they shared their sto­ries). I love WOM and the women it brings into our lives.

M:  Last night was incred­i­ble! I felt hon­ored to be a part of it and see God’s work­ing miracle.

LA:  It was awe­some!  The ladies were so trans­par­ent about their strug­gles, and even at such young ages, they have already dealt with so much.  It was truly an honor to be on the lis­ten­ing end of their shar­ing!   We are all feel­ing a close­ness already…great study, Linda!

D: Our group was amaz­ing…  The depth of pain, abuse, tragedy… the courage to tell the sto­ries… oh my good­ness.  It was so spe­cial, I really felt hon­ored to be with the women. One lady started sob­bing and couldn’t get through her story, I asked if she was ok and told her that she didn’t have to con­tinue.  .  .  After our group prayed for her, she said she wanted to try one more time and then she fin­ished her story!  What a tes­ti­mony to the other women–and to me!


B:  Last night was a won­der­fully bit­ter­sweet time of shar­ing.  They are all so different–in their lives and in their sea­son of life… Their sto­ries are dif­fer­ent, and yet, there were threads woven through each story that wove us all together. For me per­son­ally, it was so excit­ing and mean­ing­ful.  There was a much deeper level of shar­ing than I anticipated.

L:  The sto­ries in my group served to remind me once again that we ALL have a story –with pain, joy, tragedy in each one.  It con­firms again how alike we all are –how much we have hurt in the past —and how much we hope in Christ. It also con­firms just how des­per­ately we need each other.

P:  My group’s sto­ries were  full of so much pain and strug­gle.  I couldn’t believe how open and trans­par­ent the women were.  One woman, who had planned not to share much because of the raw emo­tions she was feel­ing about a sit­u­a­tion right now, decided she needed to talk about it –and did.

For WOM lead­ers every­where, this is no mistake–the trans­parency we wit­ness in the Woman on a Mis­sion classes. And it is not the result of what WE did last night or what other lead­ers do else­where.  It is God at work. He wants us to remem­ber that He cares and we are not alone. As we open our­selves up to oth­ers,  God’s love flows through them to us. We would do well to remem­ber to praise Him for let­ting His glory shine as we say out loud what is true of us.   Please pray for women every­where who are going through the mate­r­ial all over the country.

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Pittsburgh Sojourners

Against all odds, namely a Feb­ru­ary bliz­zard that blasted across the north­east,  I arrived with­out inci­dent in Pitts­burgh the day after the storm blew through.  Mary Lucas gra­ciously opened her 100-year old, charm-filled Sewick­ley home to me, mak­ing me feel truly ‘at home.’   At a cof­fee the next day, I was greeted by twenty or so women who had either been through my book or were cur­rently going through the mate­r­ial. Mary and Helen, God must surely be at work along­side you.

God never ceases to amaze me.  What women!  What sto­ries!  What hearts for min­istry!  But most endear­ing to me of all was the tan­gi­ble unity I felt with like-minded sis­ters in Christ.  Self­less and gen­uine sojourn­ers so many miles from my home.  It was as if we’d known each other for decades.  Their excite­ment for life and for mak­ing a dif­fer­ence was noth­ing short of thrilling.  My one regret was in my fail­ure to snap some pic­tures of their faces!  Too caught up was I in the con­ver­sa­tions and the shared vision for “glo­ri­fy­ing God by accom­plish­ing The Work He has given us to do.”

Friends in Pitts­burgh, Lit­tle Rock and else­where, mark my words:  When God begins to move in the hearts of women every­where to do what He cre­ated them to do with their time, tal­ents and energy, the impact on our soci­ety will be stag­ger­ing!  Because “the peo­ple who know their God will dis­play strength and take action” (Daniel 11:32).  They already are!

Pitts­burgh, send me your sto­ries and pho­tos!  I’m col­lect­ing them for “my next book” –that dreaded (er, lovely?) phrase! Mem­phis, Michi­gan, Pine Bluff, Con­way, you too!

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