Vital Piece

You mat­ter. You are here on planet Earth for a rea­son, placed here by a Cre­ator who has designs on your life.  There is some­thing you are meant to do in the world for the world.  Some­thing you are meant to give to oth­ers.  You were cre­ated for a pur­pose by a pur­pose­ful, orderly God.  When He built a world that was both effi­cient and beau­ti­ful, He filled it with human beings and decided to include you.  Why?

The Cre­ator planned that every per­son would play a part and help the uni­verse work as it should.  To some He gave what humans would con­sider big jobs, to oth­ers, sim­ple assign­ments.  But to Him, every task was immensely impor­tant for the work­ing of the whole.  Each per­son, each tiny baby He fash­ioned, had –has— a pur­pose to ful­fill that is nec­es­sary.  You were cre­ated to do some­thing to make the world a bet­ter place.  You were cre­ated for a purpose.

If the words above res­onate with you, per­haps it is because your Cre­ator imbed­ded in your very DNA the notion that you are here to make a dif­fer­ence.   Try as you might, you sim­ply can­not shake the dream-like long­ing you have to do just that—to play a role that is truly sig­nif­i­cant.   At times you tell your­self to give it up, to be con­tent with what is and adjust your atti­tude.  But you can­not do it.  Deep within, you know there is more to life than this.  There is a rea­son I am here; my exis­tence is not ran­dom.  I matter.

For we are God’s work­man­ship, cre­ated in Christ Jesus for good works,
which God pre­pared before­hand, that we should walk in them.

Won­der what that is, that some­thing God planned for you?

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The Ultimate Beauty of Service

In the world where I work on staff at Fel­low­ship Bible Church, a mantra often repeated in the halls and offices is, “Ser­vice is dis­ci­ple­ship.”  First time I heard it, my imme­di­ate thought was, What? Wait –back up and ‘splain.

Now, I get it.  As we serve, we become dis­ci­ples.  Study­ing the Bible cer­tainly helps us become dis­ci­ples.  Read­ing great books by those wiser and more expe­ri­enced helps, too.  Tak­ing equip­ping classes has its place in our growth.  But the best place to learn how to become a dis­ci­ple of Christ is leave the class­room and get some on the job train­ing.  O.J.T.  Actual hands-on, front-line min­istry to oth­ers, prefer­ably, oth­ers out­side the bor­ders of your com­fort zone. That is where we are dri­ven to seek the face of God.  That is where we know beyond a shadow of a doubt how inad­e­quate we are.  It is in that place –above all–where we become recep­tive.  Moti­vated.  Eager to hear from God, trust Him fully, and obey.  Ser­vice is discipleship.

Hid­den Creek Devel­op­ment Cen­ter, a res­i­den­tial tran­si­tion facil­ity for recently released felons, opened its doors in Jan­u­ary, 2011. Since then I’ve been serv­ing as trainer of vol­un­teers and becom­ing increas­ingly involved with the res­i­dents.  As I began to serve, I quickly real­ized how lit­tle I knew of this world.  Though I’d been work­ing with vol­un­teers in the church for nearly 30 years, I was ill-equipped to deal with the chal­lenges of min­istry in this venue.  In the months that fol­lowed I came to know just how much I need God.  That is what O.J.T. is all about:  God just has to show up or what I’m doing is for naught.  Case in point:  while talk­ing with one of the res­i­dents recently, this thought wafted across my con­scious­ness:  Holy Spirit , if you don’t empower me right now, I’m going to blow this oppor­tu­nity to speak into the life of one who is ask­ing great ques­tions.  Speak through me, Lord!

In that moment, I was recep­tive.  Teach­able.  Capa­ble of actu­ally allow­ing the Spirit to use my mouth.  I was finally becom­ing a dis­ci­ple.  Have you been there?  Good!  You’re poised (1) to grow as a dis­ci­ple and (2) to bear fruit that lasts.

If you haven’t been there, are you will­ing to go?  If so, you will expe­ri­ence the ulti­mate beauty of ser­vice.  You will, my friend, go deep with God.

May you and I become increas­ingly will­ing, recep­tive and able to hear.  Trust.  Obey.

What are you hear­ing lately?

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Honduras, Watch Out!

Hon­duras: Watch Out!

 

Everyone’s ask­ing, “How was your trip to Hon­duras?”  The short answer:  amazing!

Not because the coun­try is beau­ti­ful –it is.  Not because the women were won­der­ful and seemed so famil­iar to me, so kin­dred.  They were and did. Amaz­ing, pri­mar­ily because of one woman –the cham­pion that God has cho­sen to carry the Woman on a Mis­sion mes­sage to Spanish-speaking women–Rudy Lopez.

Rudy just hap­pens to be a dynamic, gifted, proven leader in her cor­ner of the world already.  She also just hap­pens to be the wife of Pas­tor Ernesto Lopez who is the cham­pion of Men’s Fra­ter­nity for Latin Amer­ica.  Both Rudy and Ernesto, I am cer­tain, have been hand­picked by God for such a time as this.  And I don’t say that lightly.

Hav­ing been in min­istry for almost 30 years, I know that such charis­matic leader-speakers are rare.  One sim­ply doesn’t come across them very often –male or female.  Rudy is warm and engag­ing, quick to crack a joke and laugh at one, gen­uine, win­some, and com­pas­sion­ate.   Her heart is soft toward the Spirit of God, yet she exudes strength of per­son­al­ity.  I’ve heard it said that a leader is some­one oth­ers fol­low.   And they do, eagerly.

What is most amaz­ing, how­ever, is not so much Rudy her­self.  It’s know­ing that God obvi­ously wants women in Latin Amer­ica to be exposed to the vision He gave me years ago.  He wants them to become dif­fer­ence mak­ers for the king­dom, to do what Jesus did –to glo­rify God by accom­plish­ing the work He has given them to do.  I have long believed that all women need to hear this message–and now God has con­firmed that He wants the same thing — in Hon­duras, at least.

The first thing that Rudy told me when I met her last spring in Lit­tle Rock was that the women in her coun­try are not in touch with their worth, their use­ful­ness to God, their poten­tial to be dif­fer­ence mak­ers.  Their self-esteem is rock bot­tom; they have no idea that God intends to use them to min­is­ter to a lost and hurt­ing world.   And because of Men’s Fra­ter­nity and the impact it’s hav­ing on thou­sands of pas­tors across Hon­duras, doors are swing­ing wide open for Woman on a Mis­sionMujer en la Mision. 

Before clos­ing I must offer a big thank you to Pam Fer­gu­son who first met Rudy a cou­ple of years ago on one of her many trips to Tegu­ci­galpa, Hon­duras.  She first planted the idea in Rudy’s mind that Woman on a Mis­sion might be ben­e­fi­cial to her women and then became the cat­a­lyst for my trip to see her.

Friends, we have sis­ters south of the bor­der who will soon be wak­ing up to a whole new way of doing L.I.F.E. –They will begin liv­ing inten­tion­ally for eter­nity.   Pam and I will travel back to Tegu­ci­galpa and San Pedro Sula to do con­fer­ences on May 23rd and 25th.  As they say in Teguc, Gra­cias Senor.

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Making a Difference X4

One of the most thrilling things about being the author of Woman on a Mis­sion is  hear­ing from women about what they’ve been doing since their WOM class ended.  Here are 4 brief snapshots:

o   When Ash­ley Wadsworth had triplets, one lit­tle guy named Parker had to remain in the hos­pi­tal for three weeks. Dur­ing that time Ash­ley was struck by the num­ber of par­ents who must camp out in the wait­ing room while car­ing for their kids.  That’s when God planted the idea in Ashley’s heart of remod­el­ing her home to pro­vide hous­ing for par­ents with kids in Children’s Hos­pi­tal who live out­side Lit­tle Rock and who could not afford a hotel.  While Ash­ley was going through Woman on a Mis­sion years later, God reignited the vision.  The boys are now 8 and Parker’s House is open for busi­ness.  Ash­ley has dis­cov­ered her works pre­pared before­hand and one day dreams of help­ing fam­i­lies all over the coun­try open Parker’s Houses to serve the needs of those in their com­mu­ni­ties.  (Photo below: Gabe, the son of Ashley’s first guest, now has a new heart!)

Ash­ley with Melanie, PH’s first guest

o   Sandy Zern of Pitts­burgh turned her job into a mis­sion.  While work­ing through WOM, Sandy decided to start an Inter­act Club, a Chris­t­ian out­reach pro­gram where stu­dents give back to the com­mu­nity through ser­vice projects.  At the first gath­er­ing of the club at New Brighten High School, Sandy was pray­ing for 12 — 15 stu­dents to launch the club, but God had other ideas.  45 showed up.  I can only imag­ine how the Lord is going to use Sandy in the lives of those teenagers and in that community.

o   Each Christ­mas for 4 years King­dom Quil­ters of Fel­low­ship Bible Church has pro­vided between 80 and 100 hand­made lap quilts for Hos­pice patients in Arkansas. Elaine Green reluc­tantly greed to orga­nize the effort after a Hos­pice worker called the church with an unusual request.  “I won­der if there might be women in your church who would like to sew quilts for 75 Hos­pice patients for Christ­mas?”   Given that it was already Octo­ber, I thought it a laugh­able request, but promised to pass it along to my cur­rent Woman on a Mis­sion class.  Elaine raised her hand and said, “I love to quilt, but I’m going to need help. With my job (in excess of 55+ hours per week), I can’t orga­nize it.”  Because no one else stepped for­ward, Elaine did take it on.  Fif­teen months later, 100 quilts were wrapped and ready for delivery.   At last count over 40 women from var­i­ous churches have offered their time, tal­ents, and prayers to craft a sym­bol of God’s love for peo­ple whose death is emi­nent.  On each quilt is a poem I wrote to let recip­i­ents know Christ cares and that some­one has prayed for them.

o   Twice a week Mary Lynn Nel­son leads a team of “track­ers” at Easter Seals of Arkansas who serve as the arms and hands of dis­abled chil­dren and young adults as they cre­ate orig­i­nal art.  Laser lights attached to the artist’s heads enable them to select paint col­ors and tools and direct the tracker’s brush strokes.  An art show at the Governor’s Man­sion was held in Octo­ber to show­case and auc­tion the mas­ter­pieces.  To the packed room Mary Lynn gave God all the glory, and the artists beamed with pride.

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Trafficking: Pittsburgh Woman on a Mission

If any two words have the power to sicken the stom­ach in an instant, it’s sex traf­fick­ing.  Read what one woman in Pitts­burgh is doing about it.  Meet Lau­ren Walder: a woman on a mis­sion — from God.

http://www.efca.org/reachglobal/reachglobal-ministries/efca-touchglobal/justice-initiatives/-god-sized-vision

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Sharing Stories

The par­tic­i­pants in the cur­rent Woman on a Mis­sion class recently shared their fam­ily sto­ries, which is the self-discovery home­work for Les­son 1.  Most came with much fear and trem­bling, not know­ing how much to share, how deep to go, what secrets to reveal, and just how much they should trust com­plete strangers.

Here is a sam­pling of what the small group facil­i­ta­tors had to say about the evening’s shar­ing.  It will give you a taste of what we all experienced.

S: My group was unbe­liev­able. They were even more trans­par­ent than either of my pre­vi­ous groups. They revealed wounds and pains that they had never shared with any­one –not even with their hus­bands. One of the women in my group who had typed out her story wanted her hus­band to know about some of her wounds so she just handed him a copy to read before she left for class.  She would not be able to say the words out loud to him.  Yet, to her small group, she some­how man­aged to do just that.

G: I’m email­ing my group indi­vid­u­ally to thank them for their hon­esty and trust (as they shared their sto­ries). I love WOM and the women it brings into our lives.

M:  Last night was incred­i­ble! I felt hon­ored to be a part of it and see God’s work­ing miracle.

LA:  It was awe­some!  The ladies were so trans­par­ent about their strug­gles, and even at such young ages, they have already dealt with so much.  It was truly an honor to be on the lis­ten­ing end of their shar­ing!   We are all feel­ing a close­ness already…great study, Linda!

D: Our group was amaz­ing…  The depth of pain, abuse, tragedy… the courage to tell the sto­ries… oh my good­ness.  It was so spe­cial, I really felt hon­ored to be with the women. One lady started sob­bing and couldn’t get through her story, I asked if she was ok and told her that she didn’t have to con­tinue.  .  .  After our group prayed for her, she said she wanted to try one more time and then she fin­ished her story!  What a tes­ti­mony to the other women–and to me!


B:  Last night was a won­der­fully bit­ter­sweet time of shar­ing.  They are all so different–in their lives and in their sea­son of life… Their sto­ries are dif­fer­ent, and yet, there were threads woven through each story that wove us all together. For me per­son­ally, it was so excit­ing and mean­ing­ful.  There was a much deeper level of shar­ing than I anticipated.

L:  The sto­ries in my group served to remind me once again that we ALL have a story –with pain, joy, tragedy in each one.  It con­firms again how alike we all are –how much we have hurt in the past —and how much we hope in Christ. It also con­firms just how des­per­ately we need each other.

P:  My group’s sto­ries were  full of so much pain and strug­gle.  I couldn’t believe how open and trans­par­ent the women were.  One woman, who had planned not to share much because of the raw emo­tions she was feel­ing about a sit­u­a­tion right now, decided she needed to talk about it –and did.

For WOM lead­ers every­where, this is no mistake–the trans­parency we wit­ness in the Woman on a Mis­sion classes. And it is not the result of what WE did last night or what other lead­ers do else­where.  It is God at work. He wants us to remem­ber that He cares and we are not alone. As we open our­selves up to oth­ers,  God’s love flows through them to us. We would do well to remem­ber to praise Him for let­ting His glory shine as we say out loud what is true of us.   Please pray for women every­where who are going through the mate­r­ial all over the country.

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Pittsburgh Sojourners

Against all odds, namely a Feb­ru­ary bliz­zard that blasted across the north­east,  I arrived with­out inci­dent in Pitts­burgh the day after the storm blew through.  Mary Lucas gra­ciously opened her 100-year old, charm-filled Sewick­ley home to me, mak­ing me feel truly ‘at home.’   At a cof­fee the next day, I was greeted by twenty or so women who had either been through my book or were cur­rently going through the mate­r­ial. Mary and Helen, God must surely be at work along­side you.

God never ceases to amaze me.  What women!  What sto­ries!  What hearts for min­istry!  But most endear­ing to me of all was the tan­gi­ble unity I felt with like-minded sis­ters in Christ.  Self­less and gen­uine sojourn­ers so many miles from my home.  It was as if we’d known each other for decades.  Their excite­ment for life and for mak­ing a dif­fer­ence was noth­ing short of thrilling.  My one regret was in my fail­ure to snap some pic­tures of their faces!  Too caught up was I in the con­ver­sa­tions and the shared vision for “glo­ri­fy­ing God by accom­plish­ing The Work He has given us to do.”

Friends in Pitts­burgh, Lit­tle Rock and else­where, mark my words:  When God begins to move in the hearts of women every­where to do what He cre­ated them to do with their time, tal­ents and energy, the impact on our soci­ety will be stag­ger­ing!  Because “the peo­ple who know their God will dis­play strength and take action” (Daniel 11:32).  They already are!

Pitts­burgh, send me your sto­ries and pho­tos!  I’m col­lect­ing them for “my next book” –that dreaded (er, lovely?) phrase! Mem­phis, Michi­gan, Pine Bluff, Con­way, you too!

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Our Smiling God

No ques­tion about it —the Woman on a Mis­sion Cel­e­bra­tion Din­ner for 60 DCC res­i­dents of the Pine Bluff cen­ter topped every pre­vi­ous cel­e­bra­tion. I con­fess, every one of these gives me a major case of jit­ters. It’s far worse than when I am lec­tur­ing; at least then I have some con­trol over what hap­pens. Not so with a pro­gram depen­dent on the par­tic­i­pants’ shar­ing. They are the program.

Their assign­ment: share what God has taught you. The stated goal for the evening: glo­rify God. Make Him smile.

The ten­sion was height­ened all the more since for the first time in six years of lead­ing WOM classes we invited guests to join us– among them the lead­ers’ hus­bands; Dr. Hooker, pro­gram devel­oper for the state-wide “mod­i­fied ther­a­peu­tic com­mu­nity;” the events coor­di­na­tor and chap­lain at the prison and my overseer.

That morn­ing I con­fessed my high anx­i­ety to my hus­band. “It’s so totally out of my con­trol! I just have to trust God and rest in Him!” My tone belied the des­per­a­tion I felt. Dave’s response helped bring me back down to earth, “Yeah, I hate it when that hap­pens. You have to trust God. How awful for you.”

The shar­ing was amaz­ing. It was deep, vul­ner­a­ble, awash with tears and excited applause, with over-the-top appre­ci­a­tion for all God had done. It was the most touch­ing evening I have ever expe­ri­enced. And then one of the res­i­dents sang a song a cap­pella. It was a Susan Boyle moment times two. Not a dry eye in the house. Oh my. Tak­ing a men­tal pic­ture of her, I will not for­get that moment. All 80 of us were aware that we were stand­ing on holy ground.

Amid tears and snif­fles heard round the room, I envi­sioned God smil­ing on these pre­cious, lovely women, His daughters.

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Your thoughts? When have you expe­ri­enced a standing-on-holy-ground moment?

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Ministry Potholes

Work­ing with pris­on­ers can be addic­tive.” Wise words spo­ken by Dr. Eliz­a­beth Hooker, devel­oper of the “mod­i­fied ther­a­peu­tic com­mu­nity,” a pro­gram used in 5 pris­ons in Arkansas’ Depart­ment of Com­mu­nity Cor­rec­tions. She went on to say that when you work with pris­on­ers you often see great changes very quickly and you can eas­ily begin to take credit for their progress. “Tell your lead­ers not to take credit. The credit belongs to the women –the res­i­dents them­selves.”

Spo­ken as if it were only mod­er­ately impor­tant, Dr. Hooker was send­ing me a sig­nif­i­cant mes­sage, one that I’d need to pass on to my team. Our Woman on a Mis­sion class in Pine Bluff is almost over and the dan­ger she warns against, at its peak.

She said only that, noth­ing more, but Dr. Hooker got me think­ing about this tak­ing credit thing and the addic­tion that can come with such min­istry, maybe even with all fruit­ful min­istry. Pris­on­ers, called ‘res­i­dents’ in DCC units, are in a unique place of vul­ner­a­bil­ity and recep­tiv­ity by virtue of their incar­cer­a­tion. Los­ing their kids, rejected by their fam­i­lies, housed behind wire fences on a cam­pus that looks like a 40-acre cage, in bar­racks with wall-to-wall women they don’t know or par­tic­u­larly like, told what to do almost every minute of the day, most have hit rock bottom.

As we begin to wit­ness changes in them, through an insight they share, a slight change of atti­tude, a soft­en­ing of their hearts, we will be tempted to think we did it. Then when their appre­ci­a­tion for us is so intense –and it IS!–we’re faced with dou­ble temp­ta­tion. We’re not only tempted to take credit AWAY from them and away from God, we’re also tempted to get our needs met through min­istry instead of through rela­tion­ship with Christ. Dou­ble trou­ble. As we work with them, we feel significant–finally. We made a dif­fer­ence in the life of some­one else!

While God wants us to enjoy the fruits of our labor, we must think rightly about who we are–ambassadors for Christ, a con­duit of His love and wis­dom, empow­ered by His indwelling fire, depen­dent entirely on Him.

Addic­tion is addic­tion –not a good thing. As lead­ers we must think about and pray about our inner responses to the rush of being used by God. Am I falling into the trap of think­ing I’m respon­si­ble for Angela’s progress? If I am–even in sub­tle ways–she will sense it and some­thing will have been stolen from her. Her dig­nity needs to be restored. She needs to believe she can find her own answers and learn to stand on her own two feet. We mustn’t become a crutch that keeps another walk­ing with a limp.

When Angela –or any one for that matter–asks us what she should do, we need to respond as Suzanne Pat­ton did when asked that ques­tion: “I can’t tell you what to do. Nor should I, even if I knew. You need to get close to God and seek His will. You and He can fig­ure it out. I’ll pray for you.” We want them to learn to be whole, capa­ble and respon­si­ble. We want to point them to their inner strengths and teach them to rely on God — and not on us.

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A Beginning

Diana asked her small group of 6 women, inmates of Depart­ment of Com­mu­nity Cor­rec­tions in Pine Bluff, “Have you expe­ri­enced life change in your­self since start­ing this course?” Den­isha*, a sharp, young African-American replied in a voice that implied her self-surprise, “Yes, I have! A few weeks ago if I’d come to class with­out fin­ishin’ my les­son, I woulda just lied. I’da left my book in the unit and told you I’d for­got­ten it, but I fin­ished my les­son! I didn’t do that today. I brought my book and told y’all the truth–I just didn’t get it done.”

Her demeanor sug­gested a new-found dig­nity in truth-telling. And she knew what it represented—the begin­ning of sig­nif­i­cant change on the inside. A will­ing­ness to be hon­est about sim­ple, every day things.

Can we ever hope to be choose well in the big things if we’re unwill­ing to come clean in the small? Her response indi­cates a minus­cule shift in her approach to life and rela­tion­ships. Hon­esty. Integrity. Inten­tional tiny choices. The taste of suc­cess. The ball begins to roll in a new direc­tion, lead­ing her ever so slightly away from her past. In time it could lead to a world far away from what she once knew, from what landed her in prison.

Matthew 25:21: Well done, good and faith­ful ser­vant!
You have been faith­ful with a few things;
I will put you in charge of many things.
Come and share your master’s happiness!

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